Genuinely Sorry but Still Unwilling!


How great would it be to hear Jesus say, “You lack one thing.?”  Just one thing; only one area you need to get right. How awesome to have your weaknesses reduced to just one thing in the eyes of the One who sees all. What a relief it must have been for the young leader to hear Jesus say you only need to change in one area to walk into eternal life.

He waited with bated breath as he looked eagerly into the loving eyes of Jesus. His thoughts raced like chariots in the arena, “What is it, Lord? Tell me so I can get it right and receive the assurance of true salvation.”

“Then Jesus looking upon him, loved him and said to him, “You lack one thing: Go your way, sell whatever you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven.  And come, take up the cross and follow Me.” [Mark 10:21]

The words crashed into him like a mighty wave causing him to stagger under the weight.

“No! Not that! Anything else, yes. But no to that!”

Conflicting thoughts raced through his mind. Warfare escalated. Hope as a great light flashed in front of him, but a deep sorrow rose within him. He so wanted eternal life! He so wanted to be a part of what Jesus was doing. “He was saddened by that word, and he went away grieving. For he had many possessions.” [Mark 10:22]

The issue wasn’t that he had many possessions.  The issue was that riches possessed him.  His security was in stuff instead of the Lord He claimed to trust. Jesus taught that it is challenging for those who trust in riches to enter the kingdom of God. [See Mark 10:23]

Unwilling to do the “one thing,” the wealthy young leader turns his back to Jesus and walks away.

Sorry? Yes. Willing? No.

I am amazed at how many people are willing to give up on their destiny over one thing they are unwilling to lay down. One thing they determine is more important to them than the future Jesus offers.

Far too many walk away from salvation because of one thing they will soon discover they cannot hold onto anyway: A relationship, addiction, a genre of music, a cultural style, uncertain riches, sexual desires and on and on. Whatever it is, it will not last. And even if it would continue and if someone could gain it all, Jesus said, “For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses his own soul? Or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?” [Matthew 16:26]

Sadly, millions turn their back to the ONE who loves them unconditionally and proved it with His life! Why? It seems ludicrous to reject life because of something they refuse to surrender. But it happens time and time again.

Self is a horrible deceiver, a brutal taskmaster, and our greatest enemy. How do we deal with this enemy? How can we overcome? Can we reach an agreement where we can live peacefully with the selfish nature of flesh? Jesus answered that we never make a treaty with the sinful character of fallen self!

Self is only successfully dealt with by:

1.) denying self, the throne in your heart – [deny means: to lose sight of]

2.) taking up the cross [the instrument of death to self]

3.) choosing self-sacrifice and dependence on God over self-help [See Mark 8:34-38]

4.) following Jesus as a real disciple

Thousands of years after Jesus’ challenge to the rich young leader professing followers of Christ are still trying to make treaties with self. Some even in ministry, hold on to jealousy and seethe with envy toward fellow Christian workers instead of rejoicing in God’s grace in them. Too many continually choose to hold on to insecurity and smallness of heart. Rather than surrendering their fears and competitive nature to Jesus, they abandon their destiny!

Whoever you are and wherever you are on your journey make the decision now that your life is entirely HIS. The only way to arrive at the destiny of God for your life is the way Jesus outlined: deny self, take up the cross and follow HIM! It will be more than worth it in every way!

The rest of the story in Mark 10 is amazing! Just after the rich young ruler walks away, the Lord makes an incredible promise. “Truly, I say to you, there is no one who has left a house or brothers or sisters or father or mother or wife or children or fields, for My sake and the gospel’s sake, who shall not receive a hundred times as much now in this age …with persecution, and in the age to come, eternal life.” [Mark 10:29-30]

Wow. You can trust Jesus!  What you lose in denying self and following Jesus can never compare to the life you gain in Him. Trust Him and follow! It is the one decision in life you will never regret!

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Life: God’s Way


I know that we are each facing some areas in our lives where we need a breakthrough! We are looking for breakthroughs spiritually, relationally, physically, financially and in almost any other imaginable arena. And we believe that God is moving on our behalf! We know that our Heavenly Father loves us and desires the best for us.

But what is it that we need? Is there one thing that should be our greatest priority? What should occupy the primary focus of our prayers? It is quite obvious, isn’t it? Jesus says it best in Matthew 6:33, “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.”

God doesn't have any trouble getting stuff to us. His challenge is for us to get in the right position where we can receive it. Click To Tweet

God doesn’t have any trouble getting stuff to us. His challenge is for us to get in the right position where we can receive it. For some crazy reason, God seems to have this idea that He should be first! Maybe it comes from the fact that He is the creator! He is the originator of all that blesses. We were created in His image and designed to live in His presence and enjoy His plan. [See Gen. 1:26-28, Ps. 16:11, Jer. 29:11] Scripture makes it very clear that as a Father, His ultimate desire for His children is that we live in His best. His best is only possible where He is first!

For some crazy reason, God seems to have this idea that He should be first! Click To Tweet

More than anything else that we seek, long for or desire what we need is Him! We need the King! It is evident. Isn’t it? I know that it seems a bit churchy. It seems religious, but it is the key to living life the way God intends it. When we truly seek the kingdom of God, we get the King.  When we get HIs kingdom and his way of being and doing right then everything else we need will naturally follow.

We want more than the anointing, more than the supernatural, more than prosperity, more than principles to live by, more than miracles and blessings. We want God! in Exodus 33, Moses asks for more! He asks for more than the miracles he had experienced, more than the prosperity they left Egypt with and more than the health they were enjoying. He asks to see the Lord! “Please, show me Your glory!” (Ex. 33:18) God understands Moses’ request and replies, “I will make all My goodness pass before you, and I will proclaim the name of the Lord before you.” But He said, “You cannot see My face…” (Ex. 33:19-20)

Moses was asking for Him! In fact, He had already stood before the Lord and told Him that an angel wasn’t enough. He had the boldness to tell God, “If your Presence does not go with us, do not bring us up from here.” Who talks to God this way? Someone who wants Him more than they want HIS miracles or blessing. A man whose priorities are right! A person in whom God delights and manifest grace and glory in them and for them.

Who talks to God this way? Someone who wants Him more than they want HIs miracles or blessing. Click To Tweet

I encourage you to do whatever you must do to put Jesus first and keep Him first in your life. A few practical steps include daily Bible reading, prayer, worship, listening to the preached and taught word on a daily basis, and consistent attendance in a Word-based Spirit-filled church. Be intentional about Jesus first, and you will naturally live life God’s way!

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